Standards of Care
We heal in community.
And, co-creating community requires truth-telling, accountability & consent.
Below are my mission, vision, values and Standards of Care.
vision
To create a world where all queer, trans and disabled Black and Indigenous women, femmes & gender expansive folx are & feel cared for, healed & liberated.
Mission
Through writing, speaking, consulting & space holding, I: (a) activate & support Black & Brown lightworkers; and (b) cultivate & co-create belonging, liberation & healing for queer, trans & disabled Black, Indigenous & other melanated folx of the global majority.
My spaces center queer, trans, mad, neurospicy, sick and/or disabled Black and Indigenous beings, our well-being and liberation, but/and all aligned folx are welcome.
My Standards of Care…
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LOVE
We strive to love ourselves & each other using the bell hooks kinda love, aka “the will to extend one’s self for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth.” It requires care, affection, recognition, respect, commitment, trust, and honest, open communication.
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INTEGRITY
We strive to be impeccable with our word & share from/with truth, to say what we mean & mean what we say, and to behave in ways that align with our word and values. We also know we will all make mistakes & strive to create sufficient safety for others to share with us when we do.
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ACCOUNTABILITY
We strive to hold ourselves accountable (both to ourselves & others) & engage in repair; and when we witness or experience harm, we invite others to do the same. We engage in accountability that is abolitionist, transformative & rooted in care, and we welcome teachable moments.
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AUTHENTICITY
We strive to be our whole, full & embodied selves and to allow others to be their whole, full & embodied selves, even if/when we do not understand or agree. We strive to accept ourselves, speak & live our truth and help create conditions for others to do the same.